Saturday, April 30, 2022

Mary's New Doctor

 Mary's new Doctor stopped in today. You heard me correctly. A Doctor made a house call.

Doctor Kennedy is a member of the Visiting Physicians Association. He was referred to us by the Hospice Social Worker as they were signing off on Mary as a hospice patient. Mary has no mobility issues and is still verbal. It may be months or years before Hospice care is needed.

He will be able to continue prescribing Mary's meds, including the two new ones that Hospice suggested, Lorazapam for calmness and Morphine for agitation.

On his next visit he wants to do a blood draw for labs. We'll have to medicate her for that.

Your continued prayers are appreciated. And, of course, Mary and I will continue to pray for you.

May God's infinite ever increasing Grace rain down on you and yours in Jesus' name. Amen.


Friday, April 29, 2022

My Projects plus It Is Well With My Soul

 Two projects that I have been mulling on for years are beginning to seem more like two aspects of the same project. One leads into the other. The gratefulness project leads to a humble heart, which is ready to receive infinite grace.

If you read my book, The Rain Parables by Mike Dittmer on Amazon, you can at least see why I suspect God is using me now as a catalyst to introduce my friends to not only my amazing Savior, The Lord Jesus Christ, but also as a catalyst to release Grace in the lives of my friends.

Stay tuned. What are you grateful for today?

My Projects plus It Is Well With My Soul

Thursday, April 28, 2022

Mad Dog's Amazing Grace Project : Introduction

The following is an excerpt from my book, The Rain Parables, by Mike Dittmer, on Amazon.

"All my ministerial life, I have been frustrated with... follow up... lack of time... unskilled helpers... overwhelming multiple family problems in the lives of those around me, even when I had been a fulltime pastor. More training and more workers NEVER SEEMED TO BE ENOUGH! But now I understood what the answer was. I understood what the rain stood for.

The rain that God wanted me to pray for was GRACE!

All of this time I had thought that God was ignoring me! But I discovered He was leading me step by step on an incredible journey, an unbelievable journey, simple to teach me to not to rely on my skills, but instead to rely on Him, and to pray for grace." 

This incident explains why I feel compelled to work diligently on this project.

I will write more on this as time permits.

Saturday, April 23, 2022

To Russia, With Love

My Russian audience is slowly inching back. 

Perhaps 10 years ago, I was receiving thousands of views from Russia. Then Mary went into the hospital. I barely posted for many years.

Now that I'm back posting on my blog, views are slowly inching forward. On a couple of occasions I noticed a solitary viewer from Russia.

Today after posting I checked the immediate stats, over the last hour. Pretty small numbers, but encouraging. 12 views in the last half hour. 6 from USA, 3 from Germany, and 3 from Russia. Like football, progress is measure in inches.

God is good. Thank you for your support.

Monday, April 18, 2022

Why Sugar Free Ketchup?

A friend asked me this question some time ago. He was curious. Why sugar free ketchup?

My response: Sorry that I just noticed this question. Mary has Type 2 Diabetes, so we try to lower her carb intake, called low carb or keto. I call our particular version "limbo low carb" or How low can you go? I've made up a limited but enjoyable menu which I keep tweaking from time to time. The goal is to keep her A1C below 7. It's currently 6.7.

Sunday, April 17, 2022

Wednesday, April 13, 2022

GROW UP!

But the one who perseveres to the end will be saved. And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in all the world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come.
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
From the Living and Written Word.
Want me to spoon feed you chapter and verse? GROW UP! Google it. You're an adult now.

Sunday, April 10, 2022

Henrik Fisker Is NOT Elon Musk

 Boy, did I get that story wrong.

Mary's husband did work for Ford as a design engineer. He was in charge of second shift. But the numbers Mary gave me may be incorrect, and I don't know how many he was in charge of.

Mary's son worked there as a design engineer also. Sometime during the recession of 2008, Ford laid off bunches of design engineers, including her son. Her husband had already passed away.

Her son went out to California to do contract design for an electric car company called Fisker, named after a famous car designer Henrik Fisker, who designed BMW Z8, Aston Martin DB9, Aston Martin V8 Vantage, Fisker Karma, Galpin-Fisker Mustang Rocket, VLF Force 1 V10, VLF Destino V8, and later, other cars in his electric car line.

When Fisker ran into financial difficulties because of the failure of the battery supplier, Mary's son was laid off. Fortunately there was another electric car company there that was picking up momentum, Elon Musk's Tesla. He worked for Elon, but soon another company Germany offered him a job, and then a second company offered him his best offer, a company from Taiwan.

While working for the German company, they were all together at the Detroit Auto show when Henrik Fisker walked by their display. Her son turned to his German friends and asked, "Do you want to meet Henrik Fisker?" They were surprised that Don knew him personally.

While taking her son to the Detroit airport, her son was driving, telling this story to his mother and my wife, Mary. I was sitting in the back seat, and being hard of hearing, I jumped to the conclusion that they were talking about Elon Musk.

I have told this story wrong a multitude of times, out of my weakness, pride. 

Wednesday, April 6, 2022

Some Surprises With Mary's Alzheimer's and My Lymphedema

 Hospice will be disenrolling Mary, but that's not as bad as it sounds.

Our social worker is contacting a group of visiting physicians to, hopefully, get Mary enrolled. Not sure how Medicare will save money on this. We don't mind paying for our own supplies, since they're pretty reasonable on Amazon.

Mary's bed wetting problem has lessened. I accidentally discovered that when I completely stopped her medication, not her blood sugar medications, but her tummy medications for her Irritable Bowel Syndrome. 

She had stopped having bowel movements for 2 or 3 days, so I immediately stopped her Pepto Bismol and her lorazapam. Both can cause constipation. I switched from cream cheese to butter on her French Toast. On the third day her constitutionals (British terminology) reappeared. Surprisingly, they actually had some form, small loose pellets. After her intestines were shortened, I was told she would always have diarrhea.

The lorazepam doesn't help Mary sleep. What helps her to sleep is for me to go to bed and make the room dark. I only give it to her once in the afternoon when she's the most restless.

She sleeps so deeply from 3 am to dawn that she forgets to use the restroom, but she's pretty diligent after we change her clothing, so accidents during the daylight hours are less and less frequent.

The solution that the Wound Care Center came up with for my lymphedema was adjustable compression stockings that go from my ankles to just below my knee. They chose this style because I can put them on by myself.

It was surprising how debilitated I became during the healing process. I became so weak that I couldn't lift myself out of a a chair or the toilet. That was pretty scary. Once the compression was back, my strength returned.

The limitations of the new compression stockings are they don't reduce the swelling in my feet. The clumsiness of my slightly swollen feet have made me lose confidence in my formerly superior driving skills, so I decided to hang up the car keys and return Mary's leased car to the Ford Dealer. Fortunately we live in the ideal town for being without a car.

I am uncertain if my balance issues will ever be resolved completely. Both a cane and a rollator, plus a safety officer might be in my long term future. We will see. God is in charge. I feel blessed that I am able to take care of myself and Mary also, and that I have so many helpful members of the family and friends also.

Saturday, April 2, 2022

Hospice, Medicare, Alzheimer's, and Mary

 Hospice is discontinuing Mary's care because Medicare has put pressure on them to stop. A social worker has been stopping in at the same time and is working on a visiting Physician's service to start visiting Mary. Medicare will pay for that, hopefully.

I will update you more later. Stay tuned. Keep us in your prayers. May God's infinite and ever increasing Grace fall upon you all in the name of Jesus.


Friday, April 1, 2022

The 2nd Gobsmacking Miracle

I was steeped in the language of Wesley so there's no hope for me becoming a full blown Charismatic, and I've won quite a few Charismatic's to the Nazarene I was steepeor in some cases Wesleyan churches but... God chooses Whom He chooses, including a full blown skeptic like me. When you get a chance, read The Rain Parables where I talk about the 2nd gobsmacking miracle that came about when I simply prayed for infinite grace.

Thursday, March 31, 2022

The Parable of the Bloody White Dress and the First Godsmacking Miracle

An unexpected, irrefutable, and the most awe inspiring miracle I have ever been an upfront eyewitness to has forever muted my criticism of Charismatics and Pentecostals.

My brother Ted, Julia, and Mary when they came to visit us in Michigan.


“My dog is not in that fight!” was one of my dad’s favorite sayings.That was the standard answer that he would give whenever anyone would bring up denominational differences.

Mom, however, had a different approach altogether. She let all the Dittmer boys know up front that the last women she wanted us dragging home for her approval was “Pentecostal girls!”



My brother, Ted, married a Pentecostal girl. She is a lovely and gracious lady who has warmly adopted our family and the Church of the Nazarene as her own. I was at a large family gathering sitting across from her and Ted, when I asked them both if they ever remember Mom mentioning anything about the type of girls Mom wanted us to date. Mom promptly kicked me in the shins under the table, so she must have backed down a little from her former fervor.



One of my favorite pictures of Mom, after Dad passed away.



I became acquainted with the Royer family right after I graduated from high school. The Royer Quartet was looking for a pianist. Mike Royer stopped after working a typical day as a welder in the steel mills of Gary. He was covered in black soot from head to toe, but I noticed his irrepressible smile and enthusiasm, and after meeting the family, I became an adopted member of the Royer family and the pianist for the Royer quartet.





This friendship caused my poor mother a lot of stress. It also made me evaluate everything that I saw or heard very carefully, for even at that young age, I was measuring everything against the Word of God.That brings me to the incident which keeps me, a Wesleyan, from criticizing the Pentecostals and Charismatics.



Dave and Jane Smith are on the inside. Lynne and I are on the outside. The picture was taken at Nazarene Bible College in Colorado Springs, Colorado.



My late wife Lynne and I had formed a singing group called the Insights in Colorado. Our first partners were Dave and Jane Smith. Dave and I were Bible College students at Nazarene Bible College in Colorado Springs. After Dave left to pastor a church in California, Lynne and I sang with the Dittmer family, then we reformed the Insights with the help of Dave Royer in the winter of 1972.



Dave Royer is on the right. Again, this is taken in Colorado Springs, Colorado.



The Insights sang at a gracious Church of the Nazarene in LaJunta, Colorado, pastored by the outgoing and cheerful Corby Grimes. The church had a strong youth group, with young people from several denominations attending.

When the Assemblies of God Church decided to have a revival, we were asked to bring the music program on two separate week ends.The revival was unique in two ways. First, it was led by a lady evangelist by the name of Betty Swinford, a writer of Christian children’s books for Moody Publishing. She was soft spoken, and logical. Second, it was open ended. There was no closing date. The revival would continue as long as the meetings were being blessed with success.



Betty Swinford was the author of numerous children's books, including this one I found with Google.



The first weekend services were well attended by teenagers, including quite a few from the Nazarene church, for they had come to hear the Insights sing. Betty would have seekers come up and stand in a circle and close their eyes as she prayed for them. As she would point to them while praying, the person being prayed for would fall back as if hit by a wind, then they would regain their balance and stand upright. I wondered at that, for many of the seekers were not pentecostals, and had their eyes tightly closed. How did they know Betty was pointing at them?

The next weekend, the kids had gone out into the community and dug up the neediest kids in town. I had a front row seat to all the action, for my job, after we sang, was to provide music background for the service. Lynne took her post back by our recordings, to greet people as they left.

I noticed a cluster of teenage girls talking to a rough looking young woman on my right. They were fervent and tearful, full of love for this very lost sheep of the flock. She was a drug addict, a user of heroine, and the mother of a child. She was in danger of losing custody to her child, but she wasn’t ready to give up her drugs. She walked out of the service.

Dave and I always matched in our dress when we sang. Our favorite suit at that time was a bright cranberry colored polyester suit jacket, with red and white herring bone bell bottom pants.

Lynne would make her own dresses, and her most stunning was a solid white floor length dress. She always looked radiant, and her waist length hair was done up in a high bun. She was wearing the white dress that night.

I had been softly playing at the piano when I noticed a tumult at the doorway, then I saw Lynne. Her beautiful white dress was covered with bright red blood, and the troubled young woman who had left was leaning on her as Lynne was half leading half dragging the troubled girl to the front where the office and the phone were located. Betty, the evangelist was at my right at the altar. As Lynne passed them she leaned down and whispered in the evangelist’s ear. The evangelist beckoned Lynne to kneel down, and she kneeled at the altar with the broken bleeding girl.

Lynne later told me that she had been at the back when the young woman had burst into the back door, and had collapsed in her arms. The troubled woman had gone out into the church yard in despair, and had slit her wrists LENGTHWISE! (I was told later by an EMT that if you are really serious about suicide, you slit your wrists lengthwise to cut the arteries several times with one slice!)

Lynne logically was dragging/leading the girl to the office where the phone was located, when the evangelist had asked if they could pray for her first. Lynne’s response was, yes, but very quickly, please. As they knelt down, the blood was spurting from the girl’s wrists in rhythm to her heart. As the evangelist prayed, the bleeding geyser suddenly stopped.

You may doubt what I will tell you next, but for those who knew Lynne, you will say, Yep, that was Lynne! When Lynne saw the bleeding stop, she did the most unwise thing any emergency response aide has ever done. She placed her hands on both sides of one of the woman’s wrist, and using her thumbs as pry bars, tried to peel the woman’s formerly slitted wrist skin apart! It was very unwise, yet with all of that effort, she could not find any slit!

You may draw your own conclusion as to what happened. The pastor of the Church of the Nazarene did. Since so many Nazarene teens had been to the revival, he was asked by his church board to renounce the revival as a work of the devil. He could not, and he had to take another church. Lynne is no longer alive to back me in this unbelievable account. Dave Royer, however, is. His profile is on Facebook.

My perspective was forever changed. I no longer viewed the world as a rationalist, but as a true believer in the power of the Almighty God. Others may enjoy getting into a doctrinal or denominational fracas. But when they ask me for my opinion, I quote my father.



My dog is not in that fight!



My favorite picture of Dad.

Update: My mom and dad Bill and Carol Dittmer are in heaven, along with my late wife Lynne and precious Pat Royer, along with the patriarch and the matriarch of the Royers Mr and Mrs Royer.

Wednesday, March 30, 2022